Category: Struggles

Men

There is a push in this country to turn all men into women. We are supposed to be more in touch with their emotions/feelings. We are supposed to be more sensitive to others. We are supposed to be more nurturing. We are supposed to be less aggressive. We are supposed to be less protective. We […]

Facts

It is amazing how facts seem to escape everyone these days. They base all of the information and decisions on what others say without ever confirming that what the person said was real. In my opinion and based on what I’ve observed, people will say and do whatever it takes to make sure that you […]

What your boss wants?

Has your boss ever given you instructions and you understood those, but then you hand them what you thought they wanted and then you get it back and it is all marked up and basically told you do not understand, this needs to be completely redone, you cannot write, etc? Well welcome to the club. […]

Ignorance

Seems like people are more ignorant today with all the available resources than they were 15+ years ago. You would have thought that with Google, Yahoo, Bing, and all the other search engines, that people would be able to actually find information that is based on fact. Instead, we rely upon the opinions of others […]

What we value

Have you ever thought about what you and others value? I know I have on many occasions and what I value others do not. Does this make me right and them wrong, know just different. You may be wondering what do you value? Life Family Love Doing the right thing Freedom Honor Integrity Fairness Equality […]

Enneagram

My wife wanted me to take this quiz to see what Enneagram type I am. Enneagram is nine symbols that represent nine distinct personality types for relating to ones self, others, and the world. Supposedly, each Enneagram has a different pattern of thinking, feeling, and acting, Also, once one learns which Enneagram type they are, […]

Perspective

I never really pictured my wife as a person with positive perspective, but she taught me something new last week. In my opinion, a negative perspective can cloud and change your vision. This will make it more difficult to deal with things. Last week was crappy from one point of view for me. The new […]

Just care

I work in a highly regulated field where things have to be done a certain way or you get into trouble with the government. To me it is common sense to do things a certain way, but it seems like the recent graduate new hires have a different way and it is leading to sloppy […]